Quick bit regarding "a couple" -- it can be strictly 2 to me also, depending on what's being counted. In most cases, though, I'll say it carelessly and be thinking, "2-3."
I know, I know. That's the proper way of saying stuff. But for some reason, in my head, "a couple" is "a few." I know it's wrong. But it's still stuck in my head.
Probably that's how it was used by the folks who taught you English. Not your fault. :) (Not my fault, either! A couple is "probably two, could be three." But we say "a couple" because if we meant exactly TWO, we'd say TWO.)
Depends on if you're talking about a dating partnership or potato chips.
If I asked for a couple of potato chips and only got two, I'd be annoyed.
If someone I'd been casually seeing said we were a couple but neglected to mention that he was including his three other significant others, I'd be really annoyed.
To me, a couple means two, but vaguely. I'm not sure how this works in the real world. I guess it means something like, "two, but anywhere from one to four would probably be acceptable, too."
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Date: 2008-07-10 07:57 pm (UTC)If I asked for a couple of potato chips and only got two, I'd be annoyed.
If someone I'd been casually seeing said we were a couple but neglected to mention that he was including his three other significant others, I'd be really annoyed.
Depends on context.
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Date: 2008-07-10 08:43 pm (UTC)But with people? A couple is two. :)
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